A Day in the Life of a Doula: part 2
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We continue with Charlotte’s day as a birth doula
Sometimes being at the hospital to have your baby can be a little intimidating and scary. A doula can help to explain what the equipment is and what it may be used for.
Charlotte is happy to liaise with the midwives and a doula will help to make sure that mama knows what is going on, that she and her partner feel heard and that they are fully part of the decision-making process.
Delivery packs at the ready!
What does a birth doula do?
A doula is there in a supportive capacity. She is not medically trained, and is not there in place of a midwife, but rather works alongside the midwife.
Having a doula present can help the dad or other birth partner to feel more confident to support the mum in a way that most helps her. This can in turn make the partner's experience of the birth more positive. A doula is not there to replace the dad/partner, unless they are not able to be at the birth.
A doula "mothers the mother". She can provide empathy and compassion, having experienced childbirth herself.
A doula can help to explain things that are being suggested by the midwife, if you are not sure what they mean or what the implications are. She does not offer advice, but supports whatever choices you make, having made sure you fully understand your options.
When necessary, a doula can act as your advocate.
All ready to check out the new arrival!
Having a doula present at your birth can give you peace of mind that someone is there for you, who knows you, your hopes and fears, who can advocate for you and support you, who believes in your ability to birth your baby and who can act as a bridge between you and your medical caregivers if necessary.
Read more on what a doula is and what they do in this blog by Sarah.
